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2 Guiding Principles to Help Facilitate a Successful Design Sprint

It all comes down to clarity and energy

As a Customer Experience (CX) Consultant, facilitation is one of my favorite aspects of my work.

At Highland, most of our projects start with research to help us better understand our client’s target customer (read: the user of a product or service). A crucial part of that research process — before we can move into designing and building products — is testing product concepts using Google’s design sprint approach.

Design sprints are a phenomenal tool for quickly learning what customers value without making a massive investment in building or launching a product. But here’s the catch: in order to be successful in a design sprint — or any working session — you MUST have a strong facilitator.

Design sprints shortcut the product lifecycle by identifying an idea and learning what is worth pursuing further without over-investing in an expensive and lengthy product build and launch.

After leading many design sprints, I’ve learned a lot about what to do and what not do (ha!) as a facilitator. In addition to my own experience, my other great teacher about facilitating well has been Priya Parker through her book The Art of Gathering.

If you’re interested in growing as a facilitator professionally or personally, I strongly recommend familiarizing yourself with Parker’s perspective. Building off my experience, I’ve summarized my best tips and tricks for great facilitation. These insights focus on group working sessions, but I hope they help you with any facilitating you do — from design sprints to dinner parties.

Great facilitation boils down to two guiding principles: Clarity & Energy.

Clarity: Don’t Be a Chill Host

Priya Parker argues that the main downfall of gatherings is when we try to be “chill” while leading groups when, in fact, people want to be led with clarity. Great facilitators clearly understand the purpose of their gathering before their guests or participants arrive, and then intentionally structure the gathering to meet that goal.

Get clear on your ‘why’ and the rest will follow.

Knowing your why is essential — it’s the building block of great facilitation. Ask yourself what your why is before you start your sprint. Then ask yourself why again and again throughout the sprint process.

Your why is usually different from your sprint goal. In design sprints, a sprint goal helps us create a shared long-term vision for a new product or service. But our why is really about learning and alignment.

Testing a prototype during a design sprint isn’t about proving an idea is good in order to meet our sprint goal; it’s about learning what customers think, regardless of whether they love it or hate it. The conversations that happen in the three days leading up to prototyping are just as important as the results of your user tests. These are the moments when disparate team members begin to align around a shared sense of why. This alignment helps your sprint participants learn from one another’s perspectives, and helps the group move forward more cohesively.

Goals keep us grounded on what we’ve set out to do. The why shapes how you facilitate and the definition of success.

““By having a clearly identified purpose for the event, participants will have more chances to actually connect, and not be disappointed.””
Priya Parker

Know when to shut the door.

Once you’re clear on your why, it’s time to think about who should be in the room. The more purposeful your group, the more progress you’ll make in your sprint.

You want a diverse group of no more than 8 people. Any time I’ve surpassed that number in a design sprint, I’ve regretted it.

You might be thinking: Really? But what if I have 10 people in mind?

Sprints move so quickly that adding even one more person can make it more difficult to hear everyone’s perspective and make decisions (competing with the goal of alignment) and to fit all the activities in the timeline (competing with the goal of learning).

““Gatherings that please everyone occur, but they rarely thrill. Gatherings that are willing to be alienating — which is different from being alienating — have a better chance to dazzle.””
Priya Parker

Help participants step out of their comfort zones in order to connect.

After reading Parker’s book, something I try to do before any workshop or event I facilitate is ask myself the following question:

“Are there any obvious or hidden barriers to the group connecting meaningfully and achieving the purpose of our gathering?”

Some barriers I’ve encountered include: participants getting distracted by technology, individuals isolating themselves by talking about kids/work, and multiple conversations happening in tandem rather than focusing in as a group.

By anticipating these barriers, I’m able to identify them when they arise and come up with creative ways to deviate away from them and conserve valuable time.

The next time you’re facilitating a group, try incorporating a purposeful rule with a playful consequence. For example: Once when I was facilitating a branding workshop, I asked the group to describe their internal team. The group had a tendency to describe their company by simply saying, “We’re awesome!”. While this is a wonderful way to feel about your team, it was too ambiguous of an answer to help us achieve our why of uncovering the authentic brand identity for the company. I wanted the group to go deeper. I established a rule that if anyone used the word awesome, they had to stand up and spin around three times. This rule helped force the team to find new words to describe themselves and get clearer on their brand.

Take the lead — or someone else will.

People want to be led, whether they admit it or not. If you try to be a “chill” host, someone else will inevitably step in to fill that leadership gap. The loudest voice or biggest personality will default as the group leader, and will likely derail your gathering.

Instead, accept the facilitator torch and take charge. Be friendly but firm. It may feel uncomfortable at first, but I promise people will welcome your leadership.

If you don’t take the lead, the loudest person with the biggest personality will.

Energy: Mind the Moment

Great facilitators are always mindful of the energy dynamics in the group. By helping to set a tone of trust, you make it easier for your participants to connect.

Set the right tone and the group will follow.

Great facilitators know how to carry themselves and speak in a way that sets the right tone for the group. Our words and — maybe most importantly — our non-verbals signal to the group what to expect and what’s acceptable. Here are some best practices:

  • Don’t open with logistics. Instead, prioritize connection from the start.

  • Open with warm introductions. They will help the group see each other and connect.

  • Avoid turning your back on the group when you’re talking; face them.

  • As you lead, affirm and encourage. Look people in the eye. Smile. Lean in.

Prioritize honesty over performing your “best self.”

Priya Parker advocates that facilitation is ultimately about helping people have the conversations they aren’t currently having but need to have in order to succeed.

Even before the gathering starts, tell the group what you’re explicitly expecting of them. Invite them to be courageous and honest; affirm them accordingly.

As the facilitator, you can set the tone by admitting when you’re feeling stuck or anxious and inviting the group to engage. Chances are they are feeling that way as well and will be relieved to hear it’s not just them.

Protect the group experience.

Be mindful of the physical, emotional, and relational well-being of the group.

  • If energy seems to be lagging, take a break. Encourage people to get up and move around. Have healthy snacks and drinks available.

  • If you sense some anxiety — which is to be expected— normalize it! If something is confusing or frustrating, name it! These emotions are normal; naming them will allow people to relax and embrace it.

  • If someone is being particularly disruptive or difficult — especially during design sprints — positively affirm and redirect them. Some phrases I’ve used are “include that idea in your solution sketch” or “I’ll capture that, but for the sake of time we’ll need to move ahead.” If necessary, take them aside and ask them to trust the process. “I really value your contribution, and for this to be successful, I need you to…”

Embrace the end of your time together.

Just as you opened with warm connection, end with a sense of gratitude for the trust you’ve built.

““Too many of our gatherings don’t end, they simply stop.””
Priya Parker

Claim your ending and make it purposeful. How you end shapes the group memory and sense of meaning. Help them look inward and turn outward — reflecting on the experience and taking what’s important back to their world.

Just as you don’t open with logistics, don’t end with logistics.

Intentional endings can be as simple as walking a guest to the door rather than letting them see themselves out, or having everyone look each other in the eye, raise a glass, and say cheers!

Now that you know what it takes to be a great facilitator, it’s time to practice.

Learning to be a great Facilitator takes experience. The more you realize facilitation is ultimately about helping people connect and have conversations, the easier it is to design and lead experiences that matter. Thought leaders like Priya Parker and the folks at Google can be great guides for shaping your own style of facilitation.

Cheers to you, my fellow facilitators! Now, go shake things up and get people talking!

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